PERSONAL ADS here ??? DO THEY WORK?

[culfoxio]

I agree with Bobkop -- the notifications square is really tiny and not noticeable unless
you are really waiting for a message. I have no trouble meeting guys at all, I mostly
use Adam4Adam or Gay.com and have great exchanges online and many times they
pan out to actual hook-ups (remember my friends, that I have a job that takes me all
over the USA constantly - twice a week, 5 or 6 times a month) so I look for guys in big
cities or smaller cities too, such as Grand Rapids, MI Spokane, WA ; Memphis, TN,
Burlington, VT etc... but I also travel overseas for work -- maybe once every 2 months or so and have also hooked up with guys down in the Caribbean, Hawaii, China, Australia and even South Africa not long ago. Of course I try to make sure that the guy is into having his feet worshiped and that I find his feet HOT , his face/body don't have to be that great -- it's the FEET that I look for ! Good Luck to all !

[BootsMcGraw]

....that the unread private message notification doesn't stand out when you log in....

You can set your preferences so that you get both an e-mail sent to you when you have a private message, and also to have a window pop up when you log in that tells you that you have a message.

[djdevilct]

New Englanders are not the most outgoing people (the cold weather does that), so folks are a bit self-absorbed.

Hmm.. I guess compared to the unusually social gay community in SanFran, maybe a city like Boston is more puritanical.. but I haven't had the same "self-absorbed" experience throughout the entire region of New England. In fact I started up a Social Group on this site called New England Feet to help us find participation-minded guys a little easier...

http://www.footbuddies.com/forum/group.php?groupid=4

I hope to put some time and energy into it after the holidays when things slow down some. Any ideas? DJ

[bobkop]

Thanks Boots! I had no idea those options were ever there!

[greatlakesbud]

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