So I have been dating this guy, who does not have a foot fetish, for just over a year now and I told him that I like feet within weeks of meeting him. Recently I have began worshipping his feet as he has been trying to incorporate my foot fetish into the relationship for a while but I resisted because I didn't want to gross him out. But a week ago I relented and licked his feet then sucked his toes. Problematically, he got bored really quickly and gradually started hinting more and more strongly that he wanted me to play with the rest of him. Until finally he snapped at me and told me to leave his feet alone.

I got a little annoyed at this because in the past year I have only cummed once with him. But almost every time we spend the night together I make sure that he gets off because I like to satisfy his needs. So when he stopped me from playing with his feet, I didn't let him suck my dick that day (my dick isn't that sensitive but he really likes it in his mouth) but then felt a bit bad because I felt like I was being petty. Afterwards we discussed it and he said that me at his feet is boring because his feet just aren't that sensitive and he doesn't feel that my attention is on him when I am down there. He seems to have most issue with me playing with his feet whilst he is horny - but never makes time outside of that for me to play with feet.

Also, I have told him that I really like it when his feet are clean but a bit sweaty but he always seems to forget and walks around barefoot which is a huge turn off. I have also told him that I like to be the one to take his socks off but then he always does it. I do think that he wants to sexually please me as he does these stupid strip shows where he strips everything but his socks - at which point I am not really that interested. I have told him 3 or 4 times how he can use his feet to turn me on and I can always tell that he isn't listening. Surprise, surprise he never remembers and never does the things I say to him.

I can function without his feet (didn't touch them for nearly a year) but nothing turns me on quite like them which is why I have have always felt a bit unfulfilled in the bedroom. This is my first serious relationship but I am starting to feel that being able to spend time with his feet is actually a bit of a deal breaker so I feel like shit for being shallow. Has anyone here ever been in a situation like mine and have some advice on how to make this work? I don't just want him to let me play with his feet but I want him to keep them clean for me and ideally a bit sweaty. Am I being unreasonable?

Sorry this is so long - it was partially a rant to myself. Thanks to anyone who replies with any advice and anyone managed to get all the way here .