Do you sometimes wish you didn't have a foot fetish?

[floridason]

Considering I frequent this site it would seem the answer to my question is no.

However, there are times I admit that I wish I did not. It has at times been an obsession for me.

I have gone out of my way to catch a glimpse of a hot guys feet. I've stayed late at the gym when I noticed a cute guy coming into the locker room because I know he will have to change out of his socks to get ready, so I stall. I have changed direction in a mall or store to pass by someone to have the chance to look down. I actually have "faked" looking at my phone in a group situation so I could stealth some pics of guys feet who were in the group when they wore sandals.

There is not so much a feeling of guilt as there has been a desire to stop the desire. I mean, I love men's feet but if I could I wish I could change.

Any thoughts?

[TheWolf9]

I sometimes wonder that as well. I see other guys and girls and they have normal relationships, but I've always masturbated about feet. I've always wondered if I never had a foot fetish if I would be like everyone else.

[footjeans]

floridasun, I have done all the things you mentioned above and I too, wonder, what it would be like to maybe not have this male foot obsession. It seems I have always had an attraction to hot guys' bare feet.

[blablablabla]

You're definitely not alone in this and I recognize myself in a lot of things you wrote. At a certain point it just becomes too much of a distraction in daily life. Yes, you can force yourself to not look. But that's just not how we are wired, so not looking is even more of an effort.

Somtimes I wonder if all women started walking around topless, how long it would take for straight guys to start thinking "man i wish the girls would just cover up their bodies so I didnt have to walk around like a horny teenager all day." I don't know, this is probably a bad comparision as were much more used to seeing feet, but in a way this is how I feel.

[flickfire]

I've done some of the same things you have too, Floridason, and have felt guilty about, but now that I'm older (50 now), I've found that I'm able to control my fetish much better than in the past. What I mean is, that if I see a man with nice looking feet, I'll take a quick peek, and just go about my business, as I've come to realize, that there are many, many, more important things in life than being obsessed with men's feet, whereas in the past, I would be ashamed of my fetish, now I just accept it as part of who I am, and live my life as normally as I can.

One of the things that really helps to control my fetish are the numbers of wonderful male foot fetish sites that there are on the internet. Without them, I'd probably lose my mind, but be patient with yourself Floridason, because this type of fetish can be very powerful, and hard to ignore, and if you really think that you're having a problem controlling it, then maybe you should talk to a professional about it, if you can. I do think, though, as you get older, the urge to see, and have contact with men's feet does diminish with time, at least that's been my experience.

Good luck, and REMEMBER, that having a fetish does NOT make you a bad human being, it's just something that you can enjoy and control if you put your mind to it!

[ftlaudft]

I've never felt guilty about having a fetish. As many of you have noted, it's just who we are. But what to do about it has caused anxiety and like most of you I've done the same or even more outlandish things to gratify the urges. What I have learned is this. When you are in a relationship, either a one night stand or long term, it's a question of give and take. You have a fetish. He likes tits. Or wants to be blown. Or wants to blow you. You do what he wants and he lets you do what you want.

In the process, many guys seem to learn to enjoy what you are enjoying just because you're enjoying itt. And you learn to enjoy giving him your dick or tits or ass for the same reason as you build a relationship together.

Fetish is fun. I celebrate it.

[flickfire]

I find that a lot of men like foot massages, and having their feet played with, if it's introduced to them in a non-threatening way, because a lot of these guys' wifes/girlfriends won't have anything to do with their feet because they think they're ugly, stinky, whatever.

[LuisBunuel]

I find that a lot of men like foot massages, and having their feet played with, if it's introduced to them in a non-threatening way, because a lot of these guys' wifes/girlfriends won't have anything to do with their feet because they think they're ugly, stinky, whatever.

I've always found that men, gay or straight, have greater foot fetishes than women. Women, for the most part, loathe male feet, so for foot fetishists such as ourselves, that's a great thing! And you're right that straight men are more opened about having their feet played with by another guy for the reasons you've laid out. Not only do they like the way it feels, but they get off on the whole idea of having someone servicing their feet like royalty. It's more of an ego-trip thing for straight guys than sexual.


Sometimes I wish I didn't have a foot fetish not because I'm ashamed of it (I've finally gotten over that hurdle) but my obsession with feet tends to consume so much of my time that I'm not able to focus on anything else BUT that. I'm in my early thirties, so maybe my obsession with male feet will decrease over time, however, having this fetish can be a bit of a burden. Having many sites to choose from now that caters to this fetish certainly helps. I remember a time where all we had was JC Penny catalogues to savor over!

[flickfire]

I can remember some 25 years ago, frantically leafing through men's and karate magazines, and buying tons and tons of non-fetish gay porn, just hoping to get a glimpse, or some good pics of some male feet. Boy, I'm glad those days are over! It makes me sick to think of all the money I've wasted back then on all that stuff because half the time, it wasn't worth it!

[gianni9uk]

I love my fetish, and I actually feel so lucky to have it. The only time it was a bit awkward was in gym class at school as I would often get boners, especially if we had to do an exercise or stretch where we had to go sole to sole barefoot with a partner, whenever that happened I always had to excuse myself and go and have a wank in the toilets, nobody ever got suspicious because going sole to sole is my biggest turn-on and it literally took me seconds to cum so I was never gone long. As for feet in public, I just openly look at guys feet, the last thing most guys would think you are looking at is their feet